Grief can change a person forever, and for Amanda Langston, life has been filled with heartbreaking loss. Within just one year, she lost two of her children. But even through the pain, Amanda continues to hold on to memories, love, and the hope of getting answers for her daughter’s tragic death.
A Life Full of Personality and Love
Faithe Ely, a 23-year-old from Shawnee, was known for her lively and carefree nature. Her family described her as someone who followed her own path and lived life in her own unique way.
While her lifestyle could be messy and unorganised, one thing she always got right was her children. No matter what, she made sure they were well dressed, cared for, and happy.
Her younger sister, Kaitlynn Alderman, shared that they were completely different growing up:
- Faithe was outgoing and loved attention
- Kaitlynn was more quiet and reserved
- Despite differences, they shared a strong bond
Together, they balanced each other—Faithe taking the spotlight while Kaitlynn stayed in the background.
Struggles and Strength
Faithe had faced many personal challenges. She struggled with alcohol and drug addiction and had even gone to rehab in California. Sadly, during that time, her older brother Stephan Ely died in a car accident in 2020.
This loss deeply affected her. She chose to leave rehab early to return home and be with her family. Despite everything, she was trying to rebuild her life:
- She had started a new job at a café in Wewoka
- She was saving money to buy a car
- She wanted to take responsibility for raising her son
Her mother believed she was on the right path and encouraged her to keep going.
The Day Everything Changed
On March 28, 2021, Faithe met her mother to collect some personal belongings. One special item she took with her was a pendant that contained her brother’s ashes.
At first, everything seemed normal. But as they said goodbye, Amanda noticed something was off. Faithe’s mood suddenly changed, though she didn’t explain why.
Later that evening, Amanda received a shocking phone call. She was told that her daughter had been hit by a car.
Faithe was found on a quiet, dark stretch of road—State Highway 65 near Wewoka. The area had:
- No streetlights
- Very little traffic
- Limited visibility at night
When Kaitlynn reached the scene, she saw authorities gathered around her sister’s body. It was a moment that would stay with her forever.
Investigation and Unanswered Questions
According to reports from the Oklahoma Highway Patrol, the incident was initially treated as an accident. However, officials also noted that it could possibly have been intentional.
The case was later handed over to the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation, where it remains under investigation.
The autopsy confirmed that Faithe died due to multiple blunt force injuries, consistent with being hit by a vehicle. However, there are still major unanswered questions:
- No vehicle has been identified
- No suspect has been named
- No one has been held accountable
This lack of closure has been extremely difficult for the family.
A Family Searching for Justice
Faithe’s death left behind two young children. Her son was later adopted by Kaitlynn and her husband, while her daughter is being raised by her paternal grandparents.
The emotional impact continues every day:
- Her children are growing up without their mother
- Milestones and memories are being missed
- The family still doesn’t have clear answers
Amanda and Kaitlynn have taken steps to keep Faithe’s story alive. They created a Facebook page to spread awareness and are working to raise funds for a reward that could encourage someone to come forward.
Why This Case Matters
This case is not just about one tragic death—it reflects a bigger issue of unresolved cases and the pain families carry when justice feels out of reach.
Amanda has a message for others going through similar situations:
- Don’t stay silent
- Ask questions
- Keep pushing for answers
- Never give up hope
She believes someone out there knows the truth, and one piece of information could change everything. Faithe Ely’s story is both heartbreaking and powerful. It shows the struggles of a young woman trying to rebuild her life, the deep love within a family, and the pain of losing someone without clear answers.
While authorities continue their investigation, her family refuses to let her memory fade. They are determined to find the truth—not just for themselves, but for Faithe’s children who deserve to know what happened to their mother.
This case reminds us how important justice is, and how even the smallest piece of information can bring hope to a grieving family. Until answers come, Amanda and Kaitlynn will keep fighting, holding on to love, memories, and the belief that the truth will one day come out.
